LilGyrlBlue speaks the Truth!
September 27th, 2007 | 
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Please go to Andrea’s site and read her latest post.
Its a response to Steve Harvey’s comments about today’s Strawberry Letter. To sum it up, he said that men cheat on women to escape the “disconnect” he feels in their relationship (which somehow has NOTHING to do with the woman he’s in the relationship with……blatant contradiction???).
Sex means nothing to men, and its nothing for them to go and do this. Its not that he’s trying to hurt the woman he “loves”, its just that he can’t or doesn’t want to deal with the situation at home. Therefore, he temporarily seeks comfort in the problemless warmth between another woman’s legs.
Ummm, ok Steve. So where does that leave us, women, as a whole? What are WE supposed to do with that information? You said it has nothing to do with us. Its just the way men deal (or don’t deal) with issues in their relationships. Annnnd, we’re supposed to accept that?
lame. fuckin’ lame.
Why even bother???
Did anyone catch the show this morning?
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Yeah what Steve Harvey said was retarded.
Each cheater is different, but what they all have in common is selfishness. They want chocolate and strawberry, regardless of who it hurts.
I don’t see why people, who don’t want to commit to one person, drag someone into a pretend relationship.
Nah I didn’t catch the show. Most television is so dumb it makes my head hurt, plus school i demanding.
Aaaahhhh… I did happen to catch the show surprisingly! Good question… are we really supposed to accept that? HELL TO THA NO!!! But like I wrote on Andrea’s site, I think there are a few good men out there somewhere.
~Hopeful in NY~
@ bGood…So I take it…that an open relationship isn’t an option for you…?
Bloop, I think I’ll answer your question in a dedicated post.
~B. Good
I don’t know if I’ve caught that one, but its advice I’ve heard Steve give before. I never felt like he was making an excuse for men who cheat just explaining it because us women folk can’t HELP but to take it personal when a man cheats. I always took it to mean don’t internalize his mess because his mess is his own.
But in a marriage, his mess is OUR mess, right? At least, until the divorce. I don’t see how (married) women can NOT take it personal.
Maybe its not personal to them (men) because that makes it easier for them to cheat without conscience, but that doesn’t mean its not personal to us.
~B. Good