such a mess
October 18th, 2007 | 
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Speakin’ of bein’ drunk……
I got a lil tipsy my darn self last night. It was great! Made a few new connections (well, they wanna be connected, but I’m not sure if I feel like it, yet). Ran into an old connection (who had the nerve to TOUCH me and say “Hi”), and called another connection (Lord, that drunk dialing is the worst, lol). Thankfully, he ain’t answer 
I feel a lil like Anthony Hamilton, only not as much. But I am a mess right now. I think instead of combating it, I’m just gonna embrace it. Seems to be the thing to do.
I met two new guys (almost three, but I got so caught up in talking to one of the guys that I forgot to check back with the other dude).
- One is a dude from San Diego and has 3 kids by 2 women. How bout one of the first questions I asked him was, “How many kids do you have and by how many women? He was like damn, how did you know? Ummm, you ARE a male in America, better yet, New York, yes? Please. But he actually had some decent conversation. He gave me his number, I haven’t decided if I’ll call.
- The other is this tall party promoter, and I’m not really sure if he was cute or not. He was just tall. I have a feeling that if I see him in the daylight, I’ll be displeased. We exchanged info for “business” purposes (like I said, he’s a party promoter), but ummm, I won’t be calling him.
- The third was this broke-ass Fabolous lookin’ dude. I was supposed to be talkin to him for my girl (why she asked me to do that, I don’t know), but we ended up kinda hittin it off. Yeah, the plan was to get up with him before I left, but I was so busy talkin to San Diego dude, he left before I even realized it. Eh well.
Anyways, it was nice to get out and have a few drinks with my girl. Oh, but I AM paying for it this morning. I got all of 3 hrs of sleep, and my tummy ain’t quite right.
damn Damn DAMN.
At least I got to pass out on my new Sealy Posturepedic mattress. I hope I make it through the work day.
First day of Weight Watchers @ Work.
aren’t we a little too old to ask our friends to talk to someone for us?
congrats on your sealy
enjoy the “rest of your life”
whatever became of the bugs?
Yes, I think we’re a lil too old to send our friends over to talk to someone for us. But if it helps, she had already went over and talked to him, then a lil later she wanted to ask him something else, but I guess she didn’t wanna seem to eager or whatever, so she asked me to go ask him.
Hmmm, yeah. Still sounds silly.
The bugs are dying a slow and steady death, but they ARE dying. But as I feared, a few are trying their luck in different parts of the apartment. I’m gettin a new can of RAID, combat, and the boric acid today. I talked to the Landlord about doing monthly bug maintenance, and he’s down. So, its coming along.
I’m still scared though. I sleep with a flashlight, the hall light on, and a can of RAID right next to me.
~B. Good
So that’s why my call went unanswered. You dissed me for a serial baby daddy, an uncute party promoter, a rapper look-alike and some drank?
Sounds like fun…bwahahahahaha.
Hope you feel better as the day progresses.
Good times….good times!
@ Andrea, - Naw, thats not why. I was actually on the phone when you called. I know, thats so much better, lol. But it wasn’t with a dude!
But I did have a good time. People watching in NY never gets old.
And here’s an update……per my Weight Watchers meeting today, I am now down 36 lbs.
And I ain’t even mean it.
~B. Good
How could I forget to add the story about the (older) guy who tried to holler outside as I was walkin’ into the bar.
Guy: Excuse me……aren’t you uhh…uhh…wanted for something?
*Is he for real?*
Me: Yes, for bein’ too sexy.
LOL, stole his thunder right out from under him. Guys, they are funny.
~B. Good
Good post. I need to do one on the dudes I’ve been meeting. Pure hilarity. LMAO@ serial baby daddy! I think it’s an epidemic. Now for the past 30 years and a few months, I’ve succeeded in not dating dudes with kids. Call me lucky. Now in the past say month or two, I’ve met several men and most of them have a crumbsnatcher or 3. I have yet (knock on wood) met any with multiple baby mommas. But one asked me why I don’t have any and seemed displeased with my response of umm…do you see this empty ring finger?!
I got a little loose off the goose last weekend myself…and had a damn good time tearing up the dance floor. Gives me some fancier footwork! Makes me forget these knees are 30!
Congrats on the continued loss. I know you are feeling grrrreat!
Sometimes the act of just meeting dudes is enough. No follow up necessary. Sounds like you had fun…maybe a little too much fun lol.
embrace the silence.. you’ll get used to it eventually