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Truly, an amazing event.

I was dragging my ass yesterday because I was up late the night before. I was scheduled to go to this after work “Meet N Greet” type function hosted by a financial company in the city, and put together by a professional organization that I’m apart of. By the time I got home from work, I really didn’t feel like going back outside to make the 51 min train ride. But, being that I’m trying to alter and enhance the direction of my life and my career, I carried my happy ass on. Boy am I glad I did that. The company’s presentation definitely spoke to my interests and needs as far as motivation to work and deliver on the job. I was really inspired by one manager in particular; a black woman that represented who and what I could be in x years with that company. I like the idea of that.

 

Work It Out

Last night I hung out with some guys folks I hadn’t seen in awhile. One in particular asks me about my workout plan, to which I reply, “what workout plan??” He informs me that I look…smaller*, and that whatever I’m doing is working for me.   Why thank ya!    

 

Ain’t that a–

I had a dream last night that I was back at this apartment my mom and I used to live in. Mom was out of town, so I had a gathering. We were drinking, playing spades, and I was getting some pretty shitty hands back to back. Finally, I get this CRAZY hand with both jokers, 3 Aces, and trickin’ off spades like whoa. Conveniently, everyone gets drunk and tired and doesn’t feel like playing anymore. They actually passed out mid-hand. I was PISSED! I woke up side-eyeing my ceiling.

 

“Got to be real, if you wanna hear the–”

I drove into work this morning listening to the janet. album on my original cassette tape (yup, its still hangin on). Man! Great album. Just what I needed cuz I barely got any rest last night…again, and Ms. Jackson got me to work with a lil extra pep in my step. Go back and revisit that album when you can! By the way, my favorite video of hers is for “You Want This”. I SO wanted to be one of JJ’s homegirls (like MC Lyte).

 

Pump it Up

I have a mini-interview today for another position with my current employer. I’m kinda pumped for it, because I really think I can contribute substantially to this department and I’m hoping the work is a little more interesting and engaging than what I’ve been doing. PLUS, I think its a promotion to a considerably higher salary grade (which I SOOOO deserve).

 

Needless to say…

I’m in a good mood.

Joined a group for NYC women looking to network and hang out together. Looking forward to what that may bring.

I’ve been invited to a couple of political events coming up, in support of Barack. I’m eager to check them out.

Superbowl is around the corner (the “guys” want me to come back and watch with them…easy boys).
Last weekend of football tho ( )
 
My friend is moving in with me this weekend; she’ll be staying for a month before she leaves NY for good. I’m excited to have her, though I’m sure I’ll be over it before she finishes putting her stuff down. But I know I’ll miss her when she’s gone, so I’m glad we can spend this time together before then. Hey, I’m getting a dresser out the deal, so I won’t be living outta my suitcase any longer! Ooo, and I’m gettin an air conditioner.

 

 
Considering how dismal my week began, things have TOTALLY changed direction and I feel more operational in my life. And considering how I was feeling earlier in the week, I am more than pleased with what lies ahead of me.

 
ETA: I just learned that payroll hadn’t accurately credited me for my paid time off after I hit my 1 year anniversary with the company last year. So I actually had more days available than I thought. Turns out I have 10.5 days that are carrying over into this year. Say Whaaatt?? This is truly a blessing, because I have MAD trips planned (& unplanned) for this year, and was wondering how I was gonna afford to take all this time off. Thank you Jesus! Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!!

 

 

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and everyone is entitled to my opinion.

 

 

 

* I’ve always wondered…is it rude to tell someone that they look like they’ve lost weight? Especially if they are a noticeably bigger person? I mean, because I am actively seeking to lose weight, I love hearing those kind of remarks. But if you’re just doing you, and someone asks about your weight, is that offensive? Even slightly?

Does it depend on how well you know the person?

Just wondering.