Posts for January, 2008

January 22, 2008

lovers and friends

 
Tell me again……
 
I just realized that my best guy friend is someone whom I’ve never met, but have known for almost 5 years. I wonder if our dynamic would remain in tact if we were to meet and physically interact with each other.
As it stands, I talk to him almost everyday, and have done [...]

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January 18, 2008

i’ll bee dat

***2nd post today***
 
Yesterday, I called someone on their shit.
 
Basically, I called bullshit because thats what they’ve been feeding me. And in typical (male) fashion, they had an answer for everything, and even suggested that I was being crazy. Oddly enough, that’s not the first time I’ve had someone suggest that about me.
 
I used [...]

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family ties (cont’d)

 
Got some interesting feedback on the family ties post. Some say that its best to break all ties, some say that they don’t see a problem maintaining those external relationships.
I talked to a guy friend about it to see how he’d feel about a former lover keeping in touch with his fam. After [...]

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January 17, 2008

fuggity fugg fugg

 
Ever had one of those weeks
where EVERYTHING is fucked up.
 
***If you don’t like the F word, skip this post.***
 
I swear, every service that I pay for is fucking up.
 
Geico- tryna cheat me on the rental car payment. I gotta call them to get it straightened out. Why do I have to call you [...]

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January 15, 2008

family ties

 
What would we do baby, Without Us?
Sha la la la.
 
When you break up/stop dating someone, whats the proper protocol for dealing with friends and family?
Lets say it was a civil separation. Is it still cool for you to contact his family? Can you still way wassup to his friends? Would you feel [...]

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