and u say she’s just a friend
March 21st, 2008 | 
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“I only want the booty……but I’m willing to hang out.”
Yall, does that even SOUND right?
I swear I gotta stop talking to the males, cuz they make my head hurt. 
Willing? You’re WILLING to hang out? Oooo, that is a strong word.
So, you only want the booty, but……what? You’ll do the girl a favor and hang out if she wants to?
The nerve.
And this is exactly why I’ve taken myself OUT of the dating equation.
“I just want some booty…and we can do some activities.”
He tried to say that he’s honest with the women he meets when he tells them this, and I told him that he’s not being honest with them, nor is he being honest with himself.
Come on, if all you want is the booty, why mask it with the rest? Da hell is the point in hanging out? (his example = movies, clubs, etc.) Thats misleading right there, because that’s clearly more than gettin the booty.
“Oh well you know, I’m a friendly person and don’t mind hanging out and doing other activities.”
Ladies……
BEWARE OF THE FRIENDLIES!!!
They are the main ones tryna lure you in under the guise of being a “nice guy” , and they’re worse than the ones who tell you straight out that eventually, they gon wanna f*ck you.
I can’t stand these bullshittin ass men.
He claims that he’s clear that he doesn’t want a relationship, well a “boyfriend/girlfriend” relationship, but just…ya know…just be friends. 
What-ever. Call it what you wanna. Whatever makes it work for you. But friends don’t lie to friends, and they don’t jerk ‘em around.
And friends don’t FUCK!
I don’t care what you say.
(but I see that neither he nor his cohorts even know the difference…they think they’re being “real” with women. they ain’t even being real with themselves)
You don’t wanna be in a relationship, yet you wanna act like you’re in one. Booty with dinner isn’t the same as just booty. And if you do it often enough, it turns into a “relationship” whether you acknowledge it or not.
on guard!
This is SHESOPINIONATED.com,
and everyone is entitled to my opinion.
Gurl! and just where are you meeting these men. Wow!
This was actually a guy friend of mine from way back. NOT a love interest (thank God). Not that it makes a difference tho, lol. They’re still……just……them.
~B. Good
Whoa B!!! What kind of Dudes are you finding in NY?!?! OMG!!!!
I’m really shocked that guys can come out their face like that. UNBELIEVABLE!
Please please please DO stay on guard. That’s some straight up nonsense!
Unfortunately, I’ve encountered a man like this and they are the worst one’s to date.
I just don’t understand. Where are the men that want to court and have real relationships?
I would be the one telling him that we couldn’t talk about women/getting booty/relationships, because he obviously is confussed about the connection.
HAAAAA…Like he’s doing you a favor by being “willing” to hang out.
That is LOLZ on Wheels!
Anyway, I don’t have (straight) male friends for the very reasons you’ve described.
All of my meaningful friendships are with women or gay dudes and that’s how it’s gonna stay dammit.
I had a conversation with a friend of mine last night… he had a “talk” with his female friend letting her know that he doesn’t want a relationshp with her. But yet, he’s hanging out with her this weekend. I told him he was sing her (he didn’t like it), I told him don’t trip…’cause there are plenty of men I wanna play boyfriend/girlfriend with doing all the dating things…but I ain’t wanna sleep with them…lol He had the nerve to get offended.
I sais some men are just great companions for date things…but that doesn’t mean you wnat to make them your man.
The look he gave me was classic.
unfortunately there are a lot of men with this mentality..and women too..I had it for a minute.both ways it was not cute…now i’m off the market too..its a war out there!