B. Good’s Random Musings
June 17th, 2008 | 
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Sexy Dex is my co-worker who is tall, chocolate, educated, with a beautiful smile. He’s also Jamaican. *sigh* While the accent is uber-sexy……the cultural differences cannot be ignored. I’ll continue to admire from afar (although he did offer up his timeshare in Orlando to me……)
Speaking of co-workers, the one that brought the date to my BBQ has been……I don’t know……”chummy”, and I’m not feelin’ it. I haven’t had much to say to him since the Q (oh, and after he told me I was one of three women he was “lookin at”……and one of those women is a friend of mine). Naw playa, don’t even sweat it. So unless he’s in my direct path at work, I don’t speak. Now he’s taken to sending me text messages to say “Hi”. Yesterday, I walked past him and his crew in the caf. They’re all engaged in whatever they’re talkin about, so I keep walkin.
He sends me the text, “Hello B. Good”.
I reply with, “Hi. I didn’t wanna interrupt.”
His response…“Awww you can interrupt anytime :)”.
Oh, what-ever!
And speaking of the Hamptons BBQ, ever since then I’ve gained a reputation of “knowing the guys”. Who? ME?? If they only knew, lol. But its kinda cool.
I think I’m addicted to Ne-Yo’s smooth, up-beat, techo, disco, R&B sound. I don’t know what he calls it, but I like it. He keeps pumping out those songs, and he’ll be doin’ alright by me.
I received not one, but TWO Working Mother magazines in the mail. What are they tryna tell me? Here goes my mom with, “they have some really good articles in there though”. Yeah, whatever. You’re not gonna swindle me into working motherdom!
So, a young woman on a journey mentioned in a comment that I must be hot these days, with the multiple “dates” I’ve been on. Welp, I’m not that hot, cuz I still got stood up the other night, for the second time by the same person, who asked ME out. Needless to say, he’s a done deal. You can read more about it here.
My uncle passed on Saturday. He had terminal cancer, so we’ve known this was coming down the pike; but its still a shock to hear the news. That kinda threw me off for the rest of the weekend, and going into this week.
And with that said, this has been another blah week for eating. Dammit! Why can’t I just stay consistent? I hope the scale is kind tomorrow. But I guess I’ll just have to start fresh (AGAIN) and get it right next week. (the 2, almost 3, BBQ’s I attended on Saturday sure didn’t help either)
Alright, that’s enough of me.
sorry to hear about your uncle. He’s in a better place free from the pain he was experiencing here!
as far as the stand-up…done deal it is! done done done!
I can’t stand cats that stand up women…they really need to get slapped in the face; in saying that, i’ve only done this twice…out of spite…because the chick did it to me first, so I returned the favor…is that wrong?
See Chris, if I invite you out, and you end up reneging on the deal……eh, its irritating, but I can get over it. If you can’t make it, you can’t make it (hell, I’ve done that a time or two, lol).
But when YOU invite ME out, and then leave me hangin?? That shit is intolerable. I wouldn’t ask someone to come thru for me, then drop the ball on ‘em. And if for some reason I had to renege, I’d lead off my CALL to them with a sincere apology acknowledging that I’m in the wrong. Not some, “Hey whats up, oh by the way, I’m not gonna make it.”
Bump that!
Oh, and two wrongs don’t make a right…but it does make you feel better
My condolences to you and your family during your time of loss. I certainly know how you feel. Even knowing that it’s coming doesn’t dull the sting when it does. You’re in my prayers…always.
Speaking of the scale…*looks at it*
Sorry to hear about your uncle passing away. It’s never easy - not even when you know it’s coming.