Someone To Love
October 10th, 2008 | 
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He’d rather stay and deal with the BS, just to have someone to love, regardless of who that someone is, so that he isn’t alone.
She’s the total opposite. She’d rather be alone before she stayed in some mess, just to have someone to love.
Why would someone be that desirous for love?
Surely there must be a reason why a person would rather take something, anything, that resembles love and affection, than to be left with nothing.
There is.
And she learned that she is not without compassion, but she lacks the ability to appropriately display that emotion.
She believes that this is her mission, sent from above.
this is either a case of delusional upbringing or a display of stupidity.
that may have been harsh. truth is some folx just get comfortable. they figure “well, i already KNOW ______”. so they stay rather than deal with the ups and downs of dating again. the whole “getting to know you” process is not as appealing when you start adding on years. especially women. women have a PLAN and a time table for it (not all).
so the question is do you seek out the one you love or just TRY and love the one you’re with/comes around/wants to love you/seems convenient/etc.
Isn’t it great to hear what’s wrong with women all the time?
Too bad this post was about a man hanging on to the bullshit. So what’s his excuse? Along with the above “sunshine” I’d add psychological components like lack of self esteem, or abuse, which are more prevalent (in men and women) than we think. Everything isn’t about stupidity. Some people in the world are downright broken. And with men, they’re just farkin lazy. Why exert energy trying to impress someone new when you already have your routine down to a science? Or why potentially cause drama in your life by letting the girl go? Nowadays men are taking up with these crazy women and are scared to cut the cord. Add a kid in the mix and they claim the BM won’t let them see their kid. Too bad they procreated with a monster like that.
I’m with the “she” in this situation though. And I’m grateful that although I have made mistakes and had my “timetable” shattered, I still have enough inside to stand ALONE, rather than lie with someone less than worthy.
Man or woman, staying with someone just because is wack and wastes everyones’ time. The other person deserves the opportunity to be with someone who equally wants to be with them.
ummm… with the exception of the timetable reference, the “above” post was not about women. never said anything about something being “wrong” with them either. put the claws back in the paws and read Poodle.