Comments on: Someone Who Lies

By: barz

barz — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 15:59:37 +0000

make your decision based on the desired outcome. what will it benefit you to bust them out? is your leaving dependent upon their reaction or response when you let them know you caught them? if you’re gonna leave ANYWAY then just say “you’re a liar and im leavin”…lol.

By: Roxanne

Roxanne — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 13:24:30 +0000

Funny this happened just this week to my BF and me, and we talked about it yesterday.

I basically beat around the bush and waited for him to admit the fault. I gave him the vibe that something was wrong and I knew something about him, he took the bait and knew he was guilty so told me the “truth of the matter”. Then again, this method probably is only effective when you KNOW the person.

If the situation is dire, then I say go for the confrontation, if not, well try to bring it up in small talk…just happen to bring it up.

By: Andrea

Andrea — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 05:54:21 +0000

Depends on who it is and what the info is.

But more than likely, I’d put the info under my hat to pull out at an opportune time while continuing to let said individual dig their filthy, lying grave. Unfortunately, I usually stumble upon stuff while minding my own business, which then makes you want to become a super sleuth. Lol.

Whatever course of action you take, don’t ignore what’s in your face.

By: girlgirl

girlgirl — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 00:38:52 +0000

I always opt for the last option…file it away for future use. Done it before, saved me some drama and other times it backfired cos if I had come out with it when I found out, I’d had saved myself a lot of trouble down the line.
Sometimes you just don’t know how things turn out

By: If

If — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 23:54:46 +0000

Just dealt with this situation with a guy I had been dating for the past two months.

He told me one thing and I found out from a very reliable source he was lying. My take, confront and then cut off!

I wanted to know if he’d continue lying if asked about it, so I asked (gave him an opportunity to come clean) and he continued lying and I knew then, I had to let him go.

Trust your instincts. It’s better to know if he’s real or not, sooner than later!